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Together. A Podcast About Relationships

We all know relationships takes work, but what is that work, and how do we do it? Reformed divorce lawyer Erik Newton explores these questions and many more in a series of intimate and honest interviews with real couples.
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We all know relationships take work, but what is that work, and how do we do it?  Why do we fight if all we want is love?  Where do we find passion after years of marriage?  Should we bother getting married in the first place?  Can we really make our relationship work?  Reformed divorce lawyer Erik Newton explores these questions in a series of intimate and honest interviews with real couples.

Jan 30, 2017

Today’s episode is about falling in love when you’re just not supposed to.

According to most researchers on the subject, human sexual orientation is a spectrum. The Kinsey Scale for instance, one of the most widely used classification systems, rates people along a spectrum from 0–entirely heterosexual, to 6–entirely homosexual.


There are hundreds of these classification systems all taking into account different kinds of factors. Whatever you may think of any of the various systems, it does appear that each of us is uniquely oriented sexually.

Some of us learn about our orientation very early in our lives, some of us never fully discover who we are sexually, and some of us discover it only after getting married and starting a family.

Today’s guests, Ginny and Jody have a story to tell us along these lines, and they tell it much better than I do. Enjoy!

Ginny has contributed several articles to our magazine. Here are a couple of links if you’d like to read those:

http://together.guide/introvert-extrovert-dilemma/

http://together.guide/two-journeys-one-relationship/

http://together.guide/tell-partner-everything/

You can also find her website at: http://www.finallytimeforthis.com/


If you like what we’re up to here at together, please consider supporting our crowdfunding campaign at patreon.com/together.  Thank you!

Jan 23, 2017

Today’s episode is about how one couple runs a restaurant together, and somehow manages not to kill each other process.

This concept of married couples who work together is something we’ve heard about on the show before, but I wanted to bring our guests today on the show because they’re the rockstars of this balancing act. Adam and Stacy run a very successful and highly regarded restaurant in San Francisco called Bluestem Brasserie. On the show they discuss the one factor that’s both their Kryptonite and their super power. Enjoy the show!


If you like what we’re up to here at together, please consider supporting our crowdfunding campaign at patreon.com/together. Thank you!

Jan 17, 2017
089 - Grumpiness vs. Control: Shane and Jessica

Today’s episode is about optimizing behavior for happiness in marriage. Shane and Jessica, today’s guests have a solidly traditional american marriage. They live in a lovely home in the suburbs of Sacramento, they’ve got two adorable kids, and two very cute cats. They’re friends with all their neighbors, they spend weekends with family, and life is good. But Shane gets occasionally grumpy and dark, and Jessica needs a strong sense control in life to feel completely at ease. In her words, she’s a bit bossy. But they’re both working on these tendencies in themselves, and it’s for the sake of their family, and that’s what makes their story so touching.

Don’t forget to check our sponsor for today’s episode: Little Bird, the independent diamond & engagement ring experts. The best way to buy an engagement ring ​is with a bird's eye view. You can find them at littlebirdtoldyou.com


If you like what we’re up to here at together, please consider supporting our crowdfunding campaign at patreon.com/together. Thank you!

Jan 9, 2017
088 - Widowed at 35: Erin Moon

Our episode today is about loss and renewal.

We’ve all felt loss to one degree or another. And we’ve all heard about the stages of recovery as well. But the actuality of loss, and specifically the death of a loved one, is something far deeper and more visceral than any explanation can ever capture.

Our guest today, Erin Moon, was widowed after 10 years of marriage when she was 35. The death was a painful one, but Erin has found renewal in loss. Her story is an inspiring one, and it reminds me how in some sense, it’s death that gives each of us our lives.

Don’t forget to check our sponsor for today’s episode: Little Bird, the independent diamond & engagement ring experts. The best way to buy an engagement ring ​is with a bird's eye view. You can find them at littlebirdtoldyou.com


If you like what we’re up to here at together, please check out our listener community at  patreon.com/together - that’s where subscribers can listen to deleted clips and get other extras as a way to suppor our work.  Thank you!

Jan 2, 2017
087 - The Six Month World Tour: Dan and Natalie

Today’s episode is about adventure travel. We thought a story about hitting the road would be a good way to kick off the new year.

Happy New Year!!

Don’t forget to check our sponsor for today’s episode: Little Bird, the independent diamond & engagement ring experts. The best way to buy an engagement ring ​is with a bird's eye view. You can find them at littlebirdtoldyou.com


If you like what we’re up to here at together, please consider supporting our crowdfunding campaign at patreon.com/together - we’re on a mission to crush shame, and we’re just getting off the ground, so every penny helps.  Thank you!

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